Nigerian actress, Iyabo Ojo has lambasted social media critic, Martins Otse aka VeryDarkMan after he made damning allegations against her in a viral video, including claims of infidelity and accepting bribes.
In a lengthy Instagram post, Iyabo Ojo expressed sympathy for VDM’s troubled childhood, which she believes has contributed to his toxic behavior.
She noted that VDM’s parents failed to provide him with a stable and loving environment, leading to unresolved anger and pain.
Iyabo Ojo questioned VDM’s mother’s parenting decisions, wondering why she allowed her child to fend for himself at a young age.
She also accused VDM’s mother of being dependent on her ex-husband and failing to provide for her children.
The actress urged VDM to forgive his parents and find peace, rather than directing his anger towards innocent people.
Iyabo Ojo’s response comes after VDM made several allegations against her, including claims that she had a threesome with her daughter and accepted N65 million to seek justice for the late singer Mohbad.
She wrote:
“Vincent, I’ve gained a deeper understanding of your behavior, and I must say, it’s quite sad. It seems like your upbringing lacked love, care, and stability.”
“Hence, your toxic narcissistic behavior, Your parents failed to provide you with a nurturing environment,
leading to unresolved anger and pain.”
”Instead of directing your anger towards those responsible,
you’ve chosen to lash out on successful women and men. Your anger and frustration are misplaced, and it’s time to
acknowledge the root cause.”
“Listening to your story, you had to fend for yourself at a very young age, which resorted to stealing potato and chicken to survive.”
“You almost got lynched when you tried to steal a bicycle, so you said, well “That was traumatizing as a child,
but why would your mother allow that happen? Since you’ve mentioned our names once again, I need to ask your mother why?”
“Mama Vincent, your lack of initiative and
dependence on ur ex-husband is concerning Were you not working at all b4 he ran away? Were your character flawed?”
“Did you cheat, Did he want DNA? Why didn’t you make a continuous attempt to find out whose farm ur son stole potatos or chickens from to feed, or were you also enjoying the benefits? Why would you have kids
you couldn’t raise”
“Now, i wouldn’t have asked you bcos everyone has their
stories, but your son needs to find healing!”
”Vincent, your mother, who failed to provide you with a stable and loving environment, left you for the streets, you knew your mother is the president, general among failed mothers,
still you projected it on us, why?”
”O wrong now g Anyways, I get that your life experiences have shaped you into the BEAST you’re today – manipulative, rude, connie, deceitful, and a toxic narcissistic. Constantly tarnishing reputations to gain relevance.”
“Your parents are to blame for
it o, not Paulo and Mama Festus and Priscilla your obsession with lyabo Ojo is telling me that my name lives rent-free in your head o”
“I don’t have 100m to remove it from your head, so please, If it helps you breathe well at
night, continue.”
“VDM, free your heart from hate by first forgiving your
parents so that you can find peace”
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